Sunday, October 02, 2005
Saturday, October 01, 2005
ARTS & CRAFTS fun crafts to waste that precious nap time
IT HAPPENED TO ME all terrifingly true tales
fun at the pharmacy
HEALTH & BEAUTYkeeping up appearnaces during winter
marvelous mom makeover!
winter fashion 2004
call me lloyd
HOME IMPROVEMENTwhip your household into shape
20 uses for your child's artwork
WHAT IT'S LIKE living the life of an unhip mama
what the @$*%!
FOOD fatten up! cold weather's a comin'!
adventures in cooking
dinner with my son
how to lose the baby fat
REVIEWS i like it, i didn't , eh...
books & music
DEVELOPMENTAL ISSUESthe life we live
me cookie monster
how to raise a spoiled brat
i want it!
i am my own worst enemy
SEXnow that's what i'm talking about
sex & the tired mama
happy anniversary to us
LETTER FROM A ZINE - STER
*ode to a treadmill*
after i got all the whinning ( well almost) out of my system in the last issue, i regrouped, thanks to support from family, friends, fellow mamas, and my treadmill. i remembered how wonderful working out feels when you are completely frustrated with life. i didn't really have a shining moment of enlightenment, i simply began to walk... and listen to obnoxious music really loud while doing so.
the end result is i'm not in any better shape...yet, but i rediscovered my love of creating a zine, so here it is...#7, my version of a parenting mag.
HOW TO LOSE THE BABY FAT, AND GAIN YOUR OWN DAMN POUNDS!
....#2 not long after giving birth the thirst began, between breast feeding and sleepless nights there was once a time you could not get enough water into your body. your body was on an adrenaline high and you felt you could do anything... for those first, okay 2 weeks. now there is no way you can start a day without coffee, and folgers ain't doing it. in a world full of starbucks where the mighty mocha made with 4 shots of espresso reigns supreme one never needs to drink plain old water again. sure all that syrup and heavy cream are going straight to your thighs but how else are you going to stay awake?
one forgetful mom
binki wars, cont.
showering with a toddler
i walk the line
chicka chicka boom boom
family bathroom time
no more stuffed animals, please!
playing house, part 1
lesson from an aardvark
things i learned from death
they call her the yeller
playing house, part 2
the magic kingdom
getting dressed comix
me & my kiki photo spread
music to dance to ska reviewed
books, books, books
look at this mess!
what a little angel
this issue truly is the aftermath. i was unable to work on any of the pieces like i planned. many feel more like sketches than essays because i am tapped. it's been 3 months but i am still reeling from death. i've tried to make this issue a little lighter and so there is less emphasis on writing than usual. maybe it's for the better. i'm hoping to clear my mind in the sun and come back with a larger, funnier, more entertaining issue late aug/early sept.
enjoy the summer all, hope the following provides some light beach reading
LOOK AT THIS MESS! :
in planning for an upcoming trip i've been stockpiling busy books and such for j. at the local craft store i took a stroll down the crayola aisle and was sucked in by the 'magic' paints and markers that only mark on special paper...
...then i began to wonder what's wrong with getting dirty in the first place? is it really finger painting if afterwards there's no paint on child or floor? why are we so concerned with keeping our children in neat little packages?...
...'c'mon mama really needs to pee'
'pee,pee, pee' my son responds
'you don't have to rub it in, c'mon'
'yes, elmo slept in your bed last night', i agree and continue to rush us to the stairs
'elmo, elmo mama?'
'do you need to get him? fine, just hurry up!' i'm practically jumping up and down at this point
'elmo' he points
'well pick him up already!' i snap as he slowly picks elmo up, gives him a half hearted hug and puts him down again
'jacob!' i raise my voice
'mama, shhh, elmo' he points to elmo lying in his bed
'oh, yes of course, anyone can see elmo is trying to sleep in'....
MOMTIME #4 GROUNDED!
now with full color cardstock covers
put down the binki!
adv. in walking w/ magna doodle art
the death of our godfather
herbal remedy tea baths
turn the tv off!
cool mama art ( in color!)
book & music reviews
goodbye grandma whalen
recipies ( all afternoon veggie soup & quickie soup)
i tried it! ( homemade books)
i began this issue with the theme of being grounded by weather, temperment, and lifestyle. my main focus was exploring my attempt at a calming lifestyle amidst so much chaos. as i began to put this issue together little irritants kept popping up, the weather dropped to record breaking freezing temps, i slimly kept my job during an unofficial layoff, my computer broke...i thought things were pretty stressful and then all hell broke loose. within 2 weeks i lost two family members and at the same time learned how fortunate i am to have such a close family that is able to support one another.
i didn't plan on this issue being about death but i have also never needed to write about something so much. through it all we learned how vital our family is, as well as the simple pleasure of sitting down and reading the same story over and over on a cold winter's night.
the other day i was in the bathroom and looked over to the window which always has the blinds closed since it gives a prime view of the toilet ( we actually have 2 windows in the bathroom and the other looks directly into the tub, the previous owner must have been quite the show off!) it took me a minute to realize not only were there several tiny handprints, caused by yogurt? paint? do i even want to know? but my dearest little one had also bent several of the blinds, giving our neighbours a prime view of me peeing!
the worst of it is our other neighbours had gotten a prime view of my stretched and saggy nekkid body climbing into the tub the other week since i didn't realize j had used his blink opening skills for evil once again!
that done, i began washing dishes in the bathroom ( no kitchen sink) and i realized how quiet my son had been, originally he had been playing with his bath toys but on second glance i saw he was playing 52 pick up with my tampons, checking out the different sizes, colors, etc. and the thing was as long as it kept him quiet i really didn't care!
order this issue for $3 to include cool mama art centerfold in color or $2 without.
MOMTIME #3 - CHANGES
ESSAYS: ETC. :
my life thru my bags our fav. toys
my day off recipies : veg. shepards pie
drs. cont... mom's chop suey
parent behavior mexican bake & salsa
to take paternity leave or not centerfold: winter calendar
non parent view my latest obsession
playing house i tried it! - herb gardening
goodbye to summer live music reviews: elvis, ani
welcome fall sinead & johnny
walls books: family stuff, kids books,
car trouble and more
having a breast fed infant was simple. his car seat was his carrier, which also attached to his carriage so he could & did fall asleep whenever & wherever. j was born in the summer, making things even easier, a few diapers and an extra onsie were all we ever needed. once problems w/breast feeding began, things got a bit more complicated, but carrying around bottles & formula was easier than i thought. then came cool weather, heavier clothes, and blankets. j began to grow quite rapidly & said good-bye to his infant carrier before i was ready. oh well, i thought, that's one step closer to an umbrella stroller and cheerios that fit easily into a pocketbook. (please stop laughing, i know better now.)j is a toddler now , off formula & in real outfits. i currently have 3 carriages in the back of my mini van - jogging stroller, proper carriage, and the aforementioned umbrella stroller. for outings when i need him to be quiet i have a bag of books and stickers. i still have my gi jane bag ( see bags piece) for my stuff and some of his. on longer outings i have a little lunch bag for soy milk, watered down juice, lunch, and of course cheerios. an extra set of clothes involves at least 3 items and it's not even winter yet. i still carry diapers of course, along with wipes and little plastic bags because toddler mess is much worse than infant poop. i carry a binki because he no longer falls asleep at the breast. i carry shoes because he's well on his way to independant walking. i bring a hat because he's no longer safe in the shelter of his infant carrier and i pack sunscreen because he has a limit for the hat. toys are no longer easy, he now requires loud, bulky things, but is thankfully still amused with a water bottle on ocassion. he needs a bib because he constantly has teeth coming in and he insists on feeding himself.
i am overwhelmed when packing for us to leave the house and yet despite all this i have never been happier.
everything changes when you become a parent. it seems almost silly to write that sentence, it's so obvious. from the bag you carry to the car you drive, it seems every aspect of your life is altered. this issue of MOMTIME is all about change...to prove it, i'm even sticking to a theme for a change!
poorly drawn comix galore
get it now while you can!
MOMTIME #2 SUMMER DAYS
in between stages
joining a club
walking to the beach
tales from work
colums,reviews, etc. :
our fav. new toys
just chuck it out the window & other famiy humor
best use of a new word
music: cat power, arlo guthrie, metallica & more
books: mothers who think, autobiography of a fat bride
centerfold: real life household
recipies (2), natural remedies ( tea tree oil) & i tried it ( waxing at home)
this, my second zine is all about firsts, at least that's the plan. seeing as my first zine turned out to be more about layout and really just getting some pent up creativity out. i'm now truning my attention to theme. first words, first steps, first nap in the crib, i'm sure you've got the idea by now. i'm stalling a bit to see if the movement in the next room is signaling the end of naptime or just an attempt at getting more comfy...
since starting this issue a lot has changed in the theme. there are still a lot of firsts, whether they be blurbs or just the fact that everything about this issue is different from the last. im basically tapped and am no longer making sense, but i'm getting closer to the idea in my head.
your son isn't crawling yet? at 7 months? not even trying? well what is he doing then?
though many moms seem to revel in the telling of their child's latest accomplishment, i cringe at the question. this is my first child, i'm under enough pressure...
order this with #1 for only $3.
MOMTIME #1 PREMIER ISSUE
includes the essays:
i'm trying to be a follower of attachment parenting, reallly i am. when i was in my early 20's, a vegetarian struggling to be a writer and perhaps an artist, interested in music and cooking, i always pictured myself a hippie...full fledged once i became a mom. i saw myself walking through eternal spring days, in loose flowing dresses with batik prints in a town not quite a suburb, not quite a city..
my terrible secret
i have been a mom for almost 6 months now. i have battled my inner demons on a daily basis. questionning myself daily as to whether i'm good enough to be a mom to j. do i deserve this child?
by far breastfeeding has proved to be my biggest challenge...
off to work i go
...six months into my new position i became pregnant... i planned on continuing up until my 9th month and then returning after 31/2 months materninty leave. i wasn't confident i would be returning. i didn't want to go back to work at all and if so not to the same job. 3 & 1/2 months went be and my hubby let me know he didn't want me to go back either but we really needed the added income. i thought about looking for a new job but with everything else in my life so new i felt i needed some familiarity...
before j was born everyone told me to sleep as much as humaly possible. get it all in now they said because you'll never have this time again. j was to be my firstborn & so this was my one pregnancy to savour. this would be the only pregnancy i could focus 100% on me & the only one my husband would be helpful during, the moms around me warned. they painted horror shows in my mind, barefoot & pregnant, with tiny little runny nosed toddlers pulling at my stained housecoat and no husband in sight. okay, i get it, i'll rest already...
the above essays plus a recipie & natural home remedy
Friday, April 09, 2004
momtime is one mama's zine from the suburbs, dealing with the ups and downs of parenthood with humour whenever possible.
each issue is filled with essays, reviews, cartoons, pics, veggie recipies and more...
i print 4 times a year for $2 an issue or trades (generally i stick to other parenting zines for trades)
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